Cowboy here. Sar is in Chicago. We were barely settled in Crete when a call came in that Sar's foster Dad, Max, had another stroke. This one is more serious than the first. My wife took the first flight out, rushed to the hospital to be with him, Glory and Violet. One side of his body is immobile, speech almost nonexistent but starting to come back a bit. Docs say his recuperation is possible but it will be a slow process.
Those of you who know Sar know that hospitals/medics aren't on any list of the imp's favorites. Max was in intensive care unit until a few days ago. The nurse said she could visit for a few minutes, then had to leave. Glory said nobody knew what Sar said to the nurse but leaving Max alone was not an option; the nurse capitulated. That's my girl.
A group of Sar's childhood friends were called in to monitor Max, chauffeur the ladies home to rest, also to bring in "food a body can eat." Max and his ladies live close to downtown Chicago. Food of many varieties are abundantly available. I know mia bambina has not had much rest. I suspect Sar stays by Max's side to ensure the medics know she's supervising their actions. Glory tells me Sar has checked out rehab facilities, constantly urges Max to talk, often whispers prayers.
Vi says the imp is running out of steam. Alli, a longtime friend, dragged Sar out of the hospital one afternoon, took her to an animal shelter. Immediately, spirits were lifted. Sar played with a number of dogs, taught a few how to sit, probably gave all the shelter workers a great deal of entertainment. The shelter manager offered her a job. That's my girl.
I wrote the above a few days ago. Update: Max's condition has stabilized. It's time he moves to a rehab center or some similar facility. My wife informed me this morning that she is bringing him home - to David's house actually. The ladies love the beach; Max loves the ladies so it's the beach. Sar knew David would not object; Sar's childhood family is our family. Bull can't wait for them to arrive. Glory is the one who taught Sar to cook and bake; the food possibilities stagger the big kid.
If nothing changes, they'll stay at David's or our house through the holidays. Unless Sar is using Vi's laptop, mia bambina isn't on the Internet. I doubt she has excess time or energy for much of that right now. In the meantime, I'm in Crete till mid-November. I'll head to D.C. for official retirement ceremony. I'm hoping Sar will be able to fly in for that. If she can, we'll fly home together. I miss her.
Cowboy
Tuesday, October 28, 2008
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I don't comment much -- at all maybe. Anyway, it has been a heck of a year for all of you.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Cowboy, this must be hard on you and even harder on Sar.
Sar and ALL her family are in my prayers.
Please tell her this and give her my love.
Love and warm hugs,
Paul. (zealous voyeur)
I'm so sorry. I know I'm just a stranger in the internet, but I've loved Sar's writing for a long time.
Praying for strength and healing for you all.
~ El
Cowboy, my prayers are with you, Sar and all her foster family.
Belinda
I have been a huge fan of Sar's for a year or so now. My heart goes out to you both and her family/friends. I know what she is going threw, my brother who is also in Chicago had a paralyzing stroke and no longer can talk but his mind is as sharp as ever, which is a blessing. Prayers and love to you both!!
Aww Sar,,,, (warm tight hugs )
I feel so bad for you all... Tell Max he has to get well ( this in the Strongest Command Voice)
Go home luv... you all will be much more comfortable and for some reason there a feeling of safety there... enjoy each other
and to you Cowboy.... Thank you for taking care of her and all of them... you are truly a Gentle...man.
All are in my thoughts and in my prayers.
sweet hugs,
Valerie
Thanks for updating us. Thinking of you all
Jean
Hugs and prayers to all of you. I spend three days straight reading all of Sar's blog about eight months ago and love when you update. I am sorry for the stresses and hardships which have come your way this last year and hope you are all home together eating peachy things soon. And happy retirement...thanks for your service to our country.
Marie
cowboy please tell sar my heart goes out to her and that im sure with all her good care Max will have the best care available to him....plz tell her also to take care of herself as she tends do over do and run herself down and i would hate for her to become ill from all the stress and over doing it
locket
all the best...it's been quite a hard year for you all.
Julia
Sar and Cowboy
My thoughts and prayers and with your and your extended family. I know I am bu a stranger on the internet to you both. But I have read about your life thru your blog for a while now.
I know I will never understand your life and what you have been going thru but I want you both to know that I do think of you and your friends and family offten. and you are all in my prayers.
April
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